Sex Tips Women Should Know

Every woman has a surefire happy-making position — find yours

By all means, try new things, mix it up, find an alternate use for your baby's exersaucer when she's asleep if it adds to the variety — but figure out your no-fail move or position so you know you can always have an orgasm when you need one.

That position may change

Maybe in your misspent youth you were all about acrobatics and funky props, but now you strive for a deep connection with your guy. (Or maybe it's the other way around!) What you crave, both physically and emotionally, can shift over time, says Mary Jane Minkin, M.D., a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Yale School of Medicine. Pay attention to what you're feeling (or not feeling) and adapt to your new normal.

He doesn't have a flaw-o-meter

That would be you scanning your body for an errant pudge or a dimple in the wrong place. "During sexual arousal, men are experiencing such a neurochemical cocktail rush, they're really just caught up in the intoxication of it all," says REDBOOK Love Network expert and sex therapist Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First. In other words, he's too overwhelmed with joy to notice your "flaws." Put aside your body angst and you'll soon be having as much fun as he is.

Sex in a soft, clean, comfy bed is underrated

You're supposed to want to do it on the kitchen floor, in the airplane bathroom and hanging from your light fixtures. Bah! There's no shame in enjoying your good sheets.

Sex clichés are clichés for a reason: They work

Get a hotel room. Have date night. Take a bubble bath. For God's sake, buy some scented candles already!

Everyone else is not having more (or better) sex than you are

There is no "normal" amount we should all aspire to, no magic number of times per month that signifies your relationship is hunky-dory. There's only one question you need to answer — are you having enough sex for you?

Asking for what you want is worth the embarrassment

What's a brief awkward moment of sounding like one of those women at the end of a 900 number compared to, well, getting what you need?

Iyayan Pictures, Before and Now

check out this Dude Iyayan turning into a fine Boy, who say Money no Sweet?

How T.B Joshua Delivered me from Smoking - Tonto Dikeh

Nollywood actress Tonto Dike, 27, who most of the time is in the news for the wrong reasons recently showed a generous side of her that should ordinarily get her in our good books but that is not the bone of contention now.

According to her, “I didn’t quit smoking by myself. I was watching a program on TV with Prophet T.B. Joshua and he was laying hands on people and praying for them. I love to watch his programs on Emmanuel TV. When he was praying, he said, ‘Lay your hands on the TV’ and I just laid my hands that day. I actually needed something else from God, not to quit smoking because I loved smoking! However, after praying I sat back and I think I slept off.”
Going further, she said, “When I woke up, I took a stick of cigarette and I felt crazy. I couldn’t even imagine that I took it up to smoke in the first place. It felt like poison!”
It’s too early to say but let’s hope she has quitted for real because it takes alot of dedication and personal conviction to lay off cigarettes especially after being a smoker for that long.

Kaffy to launch dance reality TV show

Kaffy, the lady with the proud name Dance Queeen is said to be set to launch a dance reality Tv known as DARE TO DANCE. This is one lady that has taken dancing to the very edge in the Nigerian entertainment. Truly if there one lady that is set to rock such a reality show it should be Kaffy-judging by her quest and promise in  that line. It is definitely a show to look forward to, and one cannot but yearn to see the show.

 Kaffy to launch dance reality TV show

 

Pastor Chris Okotie to Open Up Next Year

According to Encomium magazine, the man of God and head pastor of Household of God told Christian leaders who went to see him that he will reveal what his wife did to him to make him end their marriage, sometime next year. They said Pastor Okotie has refused to listen to admonitions and pleas by other pastors who have repeatedly called him or visited his church. He has refused to tell anyone what Stephanie Henshaw did to him; all he says is that he’s not ready to give details now but will reveal all a year from now.

Psquare vs May D

Pop singer Akinmayokun ‘May D‘ Awodumila has reacted to the recent statement put out by Square Records announcing they are parting ways with him.
‘I don’t know what they are talking about‘, May D, who sounded very relaxed told NET over the phone. ‘You know I don’t stay in their house so how am I meant to know this?‘ he continued.
Just this morning (Tuesday, August 21, 2012) in a statement made available to NET, Jude Okoye announced that the label and its sister company Northside Entertainment would no longer be associated with May D.
When we asked if Jude Okoye or anyone from Square Records had contacted him, he responded ‘I don’t know, have a nice day‘.

Kunle Afolayan’s mother Claims Selling Puff Puff and Pepper soup to Educate his Son

The mother of popular moviedirector-producer, Kunle Afolayan featured on a recent edition of the ongoing Supermom reality TV show where she gave an account of her experience bringing up her children in a polygamous home that had a sojourner as head.
The 69-year-old woman told the story of how she got married at a very early age to her late husband, Ade Love whose profession as a movie maker caused him to travel frequently.
According to her, her husband non availability and his preference to invest in his business coupled
with the polygamous nature of the home exposed her to so much trauma. She soon ventured into the sale of puff puff and later, pepper soup.
Shortly before Kunle was five years old, she says, they were thrown out of the house and had to temporarily put up in a friend’s house, ‘All we did was spend the night there. I was pregnant with my last child then and would sit outside in the cold till the mama would come back, freshen up and then ask us to come in and sleep…it wasn’t convenient because there were bed bugs in the room and I had to stay up in the nights to keep them from biting my boys‘, she said.
Not long after, they got a place of theirs to stay but like the mighty wind in the popular fairy tale, a flood came one day and destroyed all her properties. She had to start from the beginning.
Kunle who is now a popular actor and internationally-acclaimed movie maker, says although things are better, he can not forget those days when his mother sold her wrappers to get him educated.

Date for Movie "The Meeting" announced by Rita Dominic

The Audrey Silva Company (TASC), a company founded by Rita Dominic and Mildred Okwo has confirmed that October 19, 2012 is the date for the theatrical release of highly anticipated Nollywood movie The Meeting. Silverbird Distribution Limited will distribute the movie, which has generated much interest among film distributors in Nigeria.

The romantic comedy stars Rita Dominic and Jide Kosoko and features appearances by Kate Henshaw-Nuttal, Basorge Tariah, Nse Ikpe-Etim, and Chinedu Ikedieze.

 “We are excited about this film because it is a truly Nigerian story that cuts across borders. Anybody anywhere in the world will find something about this film to like. We are not only introducing upcoming stars in Femi Jacobs and Linda I. Ejiofor but we are also showcasing a different and dynamic Rita Dominic,” said Managing Director of TASC Mildred Okwo of the company’s first cinematic offering.

A MORD Pictures production for entertainment company TASC, The Meeting is directed by Mildred Okwo, produced by Rita Dominic and Mildred Okwo and superbly written by Tunde Babalola. The story set in Abuja follows the trials of Lagos-based corporate executive Makinde Esho (Femi Jacobs) who finds himself at the mercy of political patronage, bureaucratic red tape and Cupid’s arrow while in hot pursuit of a ‘meeting’ to secure a government contract.

The Meeting addresses an array of contemporary issues audiences are sure to identify with from love to African time, to the trials of tackling officials and manoeuvring red tape. It also brings together a stellar cast of Nollywood stars that are sure to draw audiences to the cinemas in October.

Don Jazzy denies the Kanye West trying to reconcile him with D’banj

It was crazily on the news that Kanye West is working on reconciling D’banj and Don Jazzy and has even ‘threatened’ to drop D’banj from G.O.O.D music if he doesn’t reconcile with Don Jazzy. It was so greatly publicized almost every news site took the story up and that cannot be blamed as a newspaper was said to have energized the publicity of the news. Don Jazzy, one of the people involved has denied the news.

VIDEO : Style Plus storms Nigeria Music Industry

Nigeria’s only surviving R&B group Style Plus is back to the studios with another song titled Alive. The video was directed by Mr. AK – One.
The group consists of Shifi Emoefe, Tunde Akinsanmi, Yemi Akinwonmi, and Lanre Faneyi. The name STYL was adopted by combining the first letters of the first names of the founding members.
In 1999 Lanre Faneyi died, and Zeal Onyecheme joined the group.
In 2002 Yemi Akinwonmi left the group and the musical band became a trio without adding a new member. Starting 2003, the group had its own record label STYL-PLUS.
In February 2006, they released their highly anticipated 11 track debut album “Expressions”.
With singles like OluFunmi, Runway and Imagine That.
The group have performed with the likes of Femi Kuti, Rugged Man, Shaka Demus and Pliers amongst others.

check video Here

Nicki Minaj will join "America Idol" judge's table next season

Blonde rapper Nicki Minaj will join America Idol as a judge next season, US Weekly reported this afternoon. The Trinidadian MC, born Onika Tanya Maraj joins Mariah Carey as a new regular on the declining ratings giant.
What's good for Nicki is not so good for Randy Jackson, the last remaining member of the original AI troika of judges, along with Paula Abdul and Simon Cowell. Jackson will move to a "mentoring role" on the show, according to an US source. Among the other music celebs rrumored for a seat on the panel are Jonas bro Nick Jonas, Neptunes producer-singer Pharrell Williams, and still not married to Anna Kournikova heartthrob Enrique Iglesias.
With Minaj, AI will get two judges in one, if she brings along her outlier alter ego Roman Zolanski, showcased on this year's Pink Friday: Roman Reloaded album and her train wreck performance on this year's Grammy telecast.
Her ascendancy is sure to spice up Idol; it comes on the heels of a Twitter tantrum this morning in which she responded to criticism that she canceled a number of UK shows due to vocal issues by lashing out thusly:
"I was in jeopardy of losing my voice entirely and needing surgery on my vocal chord. If u can't understand that, your mother's a WHORE!!!!" she Tweeted. "I will NOT let you people make me feel horrible for a f---ing HEALTH issue! That's what got me in this mess! I shldve listened 2 the doctor!"
For all other upcoming America Idol news, please follow @DaveOnDemand_TV. That guy never misses a show.

Nicki Minaj will join "America Idol" judge's table next season

UN video: Beyonce’s sets social media record

A music video by pop singer Beyonce helped inspire one billion messages for World Humanitarian Day on Sunday, which the United Nations said was a social media record.
The singer recorded the music video, “I Was Here,” for the UN campaign to generate one billion messages encouraging people to do a good deed.
“The World Humanitarian Day 2012 campaign has made social media history by sharing more than one billion messages of hope,” the UN said in a statement.
The UN launched its campaign on August 2 to collect the messages, which were distributed on Sunday in honor of humanitarian workers.
The campaign numbers around the world soared after the release of Beyonce’s video on Saturday and the message spread rapidly among her fans.
Valerie Amos, UN under secretary general for humanitarian affairs, praised the “amazing work” of the singer in taking the UN’s cause further.
Dressed in a white, floor-length gown, Beyonce sang the song for the video at the UN General Assembly. The video shows her singing at the UN headquarters and scenes from recent disasters.
“This is our time to leave our mark on the world and show that we were here and we care,” Beyonce said in a statement.

Yvonne Nelson And Chris Attoh In Secret Wedding

ust last week reports flew in on how very few celebrities were invited to the secret wedding ceremony of ChrisAttoh and elegant Yvonne Nelson at the Aburi gardens.This should eventually change our mindsets as to what weddings should look like as these surprise secret weddings seem to even have more effect than the noisy ones we tend to plan for so many months for.

Olisa Adibua almost Messed Up The Rick Ross Show In Lagos

The show that brought Lagos to a stand-still,the St. Eve’s Summer Jam Fest held at the Expo Hall of Eko Hotel and Suites, Victoria Island, Lagos last Friday could be one of the best shows staged in Nigeria in recent times. The show did not go without some hiccups.
The event started 4 hours late,Africa time I guess. It was billed to start at 7PM but finally started at 11PM.
Back stage, a source, who witnessed an ugly incident that happened, said that the Beat FM OAP, Olisa Adibuanearly messed the show up. It was said that he badgered a junior staff at Beat FM, and insisted that he should be the one to introduce Rick Ross to the stage to perform.Originally this was Larry D’s role whom the organisers of the show had chosen.
A fracas later ensued but was later resolved. Immediately Rick Ross finished his performance, the hall was scanty, which marred later performances by Flavour and others.

Reasons Why Peter Of P-square don't want to marry Lola Omotayo

It’s no longer news that one of the singing sensational duo, P Square, Peter is expecting another baby from mother of his first son, Cameron, Lola Omotayo. A lot of public opinions, speculations and insinuations have it that, why on earth would someone not be married to a woman and still expect to have another baby. Well,we can authouritatively revealed that, there is more to this than meet the eyes.

While one group of tale mongers said that the debonair ex-public relations executive has been un accepted by the Okoye siblings, another has it that the domineering attitude of this fair skin beauty is the cause of the delay in their solemnization.

“You will find Lola Omotayo 24 hours/ 7 days a week at P Square’s Omole Estate villa anytime you visit them. They live like husband and wife,” disclosed a dependable source in the neighborhood.

However, we can reveal to you that neither of the two tales is to be believed.Impeccable sources confided that the brothers, Peter and Paul Okoye have a secret pact to get married at the same time, day and venue. According to ou rsource, the two brothers have resolved not to allow marriage come in-between them, thus their decision to get married at the same time.

“It is a sacrifice and a compromise both of them reached pain stakingly in the interest of their career and what they have both shared since childhood,” disclosed by a very close source.

How long Peter Okoye will wait for his brother, Paul is a question of time but there are strong indications that he won’t have to wait for too long. Paul who is the quiet of the two is said to be in love with a lady whose identity is yet to be revealed.

It will not be forgotten in a hurry that the identical brothers have done everything from cradle to their adult age together and have been inseparable.Aside attending the same Primary and Secondary schools, the two brothers possess Diploma Certificates from the University of Jos (UNIJOS) and Degrees from University of Abuja (Uni-Abuja) respectively.

Akor prepares to hit Nigeria Music Industry with Azonto

When You Talk About Passion, Originality And Creativity Akor of The ‘ J’kampra Unit, Is One Of The Few Artiste To Hit Your Mind Coming Out From The Middle Belt Of Nigeria. This Benue State Born Singer/Song Writer Waz Born On The 10th Day Of January With Birth Names ‘Akor Joseph ThankGod’ Who Is A Native Of Idoma.

Akor Who Is Warming Up His Gear To Storm The Nigeria Music Industry Has Seen Him Self Worked With The Likes Of J-Sleek, Indomix, Cynthia Morgan, Erriga And A Few But To Mention. While He Prepares His Official Single Here Is A Tip Of The Iceberg Freestyle To Warm Up His Fans (Azonto Finale) Or (Dance Skele).

Video: Oliver Twist song by Dbanj featured in Top American TV Advert

Dbanj has always reiterated his ultimate goal of eating out of the American “big apple” and oh dear is a brother close of doing that? His hit single “Oliver Twist was featured in an American Malibu ad. Incase you don’t know what that means, it means Dbanj has received some major payment in exchange for allowing his song to be used for the ad! Osheeeyy

 WATCH THE AD VIDEO BELOW

China Wins Miss World 2012

Model, Wen Xia Yu, was this afternoon, Saturday August 18th, crowned Miss World 2012 at the event which took place in Ordos, Inner Mongolia, China. Miss Wales was 1st runner up, 2nd runner up, Miss Australia

Nse Etim “I Grew Up Befriending Animals Because My Parents Were too Busy”

Nollywood actress, Nse Etim, speaks with ADEMOLA OLONILUA about her career and sundry matters

My hairstyle

Nse Etim: I don’t wear dreadlocks, it is just my natural hair that you are seeing. I twist it and loose it when I choose to. I do not fix a weave-on because it is artificial. I carry my hair most of the time, except when I have to attach something else to it. If I am playing a role in a home video film, I wear another hairstyle. I am an easy-going person, though I am inclined to lose my temper sometimes. My bark is worse than my bite and I am a simple person.

Life after graduation

Nse Etim: After graduating from the University of Calabar, I worked with a radio station and a television station. I did a bit of film acting before getting a job in a bank.

Why I quit banking

Nse Etim: I don’t think I remember the year I quit banking. But when I decided it was not longer what I wanted to do I had to leave. I was doing the same thing everyday. I was not passionate about it and I think if you want to earn a living, you should be passionate about what you do.
How I became an actress
Nse Etim: A movie producer, Emem Isong, brought a script to me and asked me to read it. Initially I wasn’t enthusiastic about it, but she insisted and I eventually did it. I decided to start a career as an actress after I took part in the movie titled, Guilty Pleasures. That was my turning point. I owe this to movie fans. They made me who I am today.
My parents’ reaction
Nse Etim: When I decided to be an actress, I was old enough to choose for myself. But my mother only hoped it would work. Now she is my greatest fan. When I say I was rebellious, I mean that I was assertive as a child. I knew what you wanted and went for it. That is how I was brought up:  to know what I want. My mum did not think it was right. So I left acting and went into banking. When I got out, I said to her: now that I have  done your wish, let me do mine.

Most challenging movie

Nse Etim: Honestly I haven’t found any movie that I’d describe as most challenging for me. Also, no role has been insurmountable to me.

Nollywood

Nse Etim: I am an ardent fan of Nollywood. I think it is still developing. We are trying our best to keep it alive, considering the fact that we work under difficult conditions. We hope it will get better some day.

Challenges facing Nollywood

Nse Etim: The greatest challenge is, perhaps, the environment. There are no good roads and there is irregular power supply. Basically, we are suffering in order to put smiles on the faces of the people. In terms of infrastructure, I think we are doing our best, too. We are struggling to succeed in spite of the odds.

Why I lived with my godmother

Nse Etim: Since my parents were very busy when I was much younger, I had to live with my godmother. My mother was still in school and my father had a busy work schedule at the time. But my godmother was not too busy for me. We were quite close. Apart from the neighbour’s son who was my friend, the other friends I had were animals. That was how I grew up. I never felt lonely all that while.

Growing up in the North

Nse Etim: I grew up in the North. Life was beautiful then. Kaduna had lovely hotels where we used to go and swim. Zaria was peaceful and the residents were friendly. Jos had the best yoghurt in the country at that time. As a child, I loved to take yoghurt. Today, I doubt if you could find any that is as tasteful as what we used to buy in those days. Now you have to go all the way to a big store to buy bread. And then, everything in the North just changed.

The crisis in the North

Nse Etim: It is just heart breaking. I think Nigeria is passing through a phase. Some people have said that for the land to be cleansed, blood will have to be shed. I think that is selfish. I do not want my blood to be shed. This is not the way to solve problems. It is painful that we resort to violence to get things done in this country. I hope that the problems in the North will be solved soon.

My most embarrassing moment

Nse Etim: My most embarrassing moment is the day fell off an airplane. I did not remove my glasses and everything went misty. I fell down when I was descending the staircase. The worst part was that I had to struggle to get up on my feet.

My relationships

Nse Etim: I am not involved in a relationship. I don’t think that everybody needs a companion. Lonely people ought to keep themselves occupied with work or they would be bored to death. When I don’t have any work to do, I read books to keep my mind busy. If I don’t have any book to read, I watch a movie or get busy in the kitchen.

 

 

 

Tonto Dike Blasts Ini Edo: Calls Her Nollywood Old Desperate Cargo!

Remember the Arik Airline award In November 2011, that even Rita Dominic and Stella Dimoko Korkus of Encomium magagazine have to come out on twitter and shout of how Ini Edo manipulates her online votes  for the Arik Airline award category for ‘best actress’ during the African International Film Festival …

The nominees for the 2012 Future Awards Actor of the Year are:
Ini Edo, Tonto Dike, OC Ukeje, Ivie Okujaye, Gideon Okeke, Ramman Hassan, Kabirah Mojisola Kafidipe, and Lala Akindoju.